Different baby daddy's?

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My first child is nearly 10 months old and I'm pregnant with a second I have been with my fiancé for 5 years now (since I was 15 he was 17) but a year and half ago we broke up for 5 months and I got pregnant by someone else which may seem bad but I didn't believe In abortion so I kept my baby, my fiancé knows the baby isn't his but since the dad doesn't want nothing to do with him so he plays daddy, we agreed to tell Riley about his real dad when his old enough but do you think it's wrong to have another man raise someone else's child ?

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I have so much respect for men that take on these roles when they don't have to, these are the men to keep.

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I have a son that isn't my finances baby and he loves him so much. My fiancé and I have been trying for another too. My sons father doesn't care for him sadly. We call him spermdonor. It's completely okay to have different baby daddy's :)

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You are blessed that you have a man who loves you enough to step up and be there for you both! My cousin is in this situation. He is with a woman who has a baby from another man. My cousin has been there since she found out she was pregnant. And he is the only father that baby girl knows. The biological father is giving up his rights so my cousin will be able to adopt thankfully. I am so proud of my cousin for being there for both of them. And to the haters... why shouldn't you have a baby with the man you love?? You do what's best for you and your family and screw what anyone else says!

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It's a pretty awesome man that would do that.

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No. If the man is aware and willing to support the child as his own, then what else really matters? There are some men willing to do that.

But you might get some flack from this post because tons of people on this app are "perfect" and never make mistakes. So if you get people talking mess, just say eff them, and you do you, booboo.

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I definitely don't think it's wrong. Your child needs a father and if his real father isn't around and your fiancé wants to be dad than go for it! I am mom to my step daughter who's mother went off and had another kid with someone else and doesn't bother too much with her. Every child needs two parents to balance each other out. Wether it's a mom and dad, two dads or two moms. It doesn't matter who raises them as long as they're loves and supported. Your fiancé is a great person for stepping up when your child's father walked out. Doing that is hard.

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No

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It's not wrong. My daughter is 9. My DH has been in her life only one yr and the bond is amazing. He claims her, she calls him daddy, and he's wanting to adopt her. (Her bio father has nothing to do with her) We are also TTC a baby with his blood. It takes a strong man who really loves you to take on and love a child not biologically his.

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Definitely not, my fiance tells everyone he's got a little girl at home....even tho she isn't biologically his, that's HIS little girl...he didn't come into her life until she was 3 1/2, but that's her daddy && she's his little girl...I love him sooo much more for stepping up && taking on that role when he never HAD to!! It's honestly all up to the 3 of you && how you feel on the situation!! Don't let anyone belittle your family

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No it isn't wrong, my ex husband is that way with my son. We agreed when he was one that we would tell him when he was old enough about his real dad. Well we sat him down when he was 4yrs old and explained that his biological dad was such and such and that daddy was his step dad but will always be daddy. Well then when he was 5 we ended up divorcing but my ex still to this day tries to still play that role even though I'm remarried. You just have to let your child choose when the timing is right in some ways.

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