Phone sex?

Mady

Okay is it weird that I don’t like phone sex? Me and my bf are super compatible in person. He is a 10/10 and we work really well together in every way really. Physically it goes so well and we always snuggle and have the best conversations afterwards. Like.... it’s SO GOOD. But we are long distance most of the time. And when it comes to pleasing each other I’ve the phone, I freak out. I know he has a little more experience than I do sexually and I get inside my own head and it’s like I don’t even know what to say. I know that you’re just supposed to say what you want each other to do. But I start to feel like I don’t even know what I want or what I’m supposed to do. It’s super annoying bc I’m coming off as a selfish sexual partner but in reality I just don’t have any clue what I’m doing. I’m getting so frustrated. UHH help!