This is more of a rant than anything. If you have advice then you are more than welcome to share. Yes I have talked to him about it. Recently it seems like my s/o has been more about just getting himself off. We have sex and he's the only one that cums. He knows how to make me cum but isnt doing what is needed even when I ask him to. Which is really frustrating since if we have sex and I dont cum but get close then I tend to have a serious emotional drop and I'll usually end up crying which I know is weird but it's how i am. He just doesn't seem to put forth the effort I guess.