Before I get the “if there’s no trust there’s no relationship comments” I’m well aware of that but some stuff is just obvious. My bf gets off work at 11 & said he’s helping a friend move furniture when he gets off, at 11pm🤔 when he left out, he grabbed a white pair of sneakers I’ve only seen him wear if we go out. If you’re helping someone move furniture at night, why not grab a old pair of sneaks, your gym sneakers or a black pair. He also ordered 4 pair of pants the other day, I asked are those work pants? He said no, I said good because they’re too nice to be work pants. So today he leaves to work wearing one of the pants he told me wasn’t for work😫