Was I overreacting?

Question

So my colleague gave birth day after I lost my baby (at 10days)  she recently came back from maternity leave. On Thursday morning she tells with a big smile that her baby is four months old& tht she buys him cup cakes every month it didn't sink in immediately but as a thought about it my heart was broken to think my my baby next was was 4 months gone. I felt that she was insensitive to tell me that. I don't know how to tell her that I don't like baby talks

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Im sorry for your loss but I don’t think she’s being insensitive by saying that she celebrates each month with her baby. If it bothers you, definitely speak up

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Just explain to her tell her hey I’m happy for you really I am you are blessed but it hurts me to hear any baby talk so can you please not talk about baby’s to me as it’s a sensitive topic for me.

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m in the same boat and I know how you feel. Just kindly tell her that you are happy for her but certain things are a sensitive topic for you at the moment. But you are not overreacting and you’re hurt. And ppl don’t recognize another person’s hurt or they just simply don’t care.

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No I don’t think you are over reacting. You have every right to just Nicely let her know that you don’t like talking about babies. Maybe she just isn’t thinking. 
But once you talk to her She should understand since you lost your baby. If she doesn’t understand that’s her problem. 
I lost my son at 32 weeks and my good friends baby was born healthy a few weeks later. She was so understanding and waited for me to ask her about her daughter 💗

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