Hey, hi, well I’m feel so conflicted and i do not know where to turn, my partner of 4yrs and father of our 3 yrs old has “broken up” with me but he’s not communicating with me and making an atmosphere when he comes back home, we have a mortgage together as well. I am literally done with his shit but I’m done arguing with him and showing my emotions to him as he does not show any back. It is like I was with a robot and I’m still getting that robot response. I’ve explained to him this isn’t fair on our child and she’s beginning to play up for me even more than usual, I’m trying to keep calm and not go off the rails with everything that is going on right now. I am normally really passionate with how I feel but I just really can’t be bothered. He’s really dragging me down, he’s giving me mixed signals and he doesn’t realise. I really don’t know what the dude wants. I know it seems pathetic but if he was serious about breaking up with me he would have removed it from Facebook. I’ve got a friend to talk to but it’s really hard to listen to a friends advice right now, my head is all over the place. I don’t know what to do I really don’t. I feel physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted. I don’t know if any of you have been is a weird awkward and pathetic situation such as this.

Edit:

I’ve given the man space, time and alternatives of what to do with the house and our child and I’m still not getting nothing off of him, this all started because I was made to feel our child was being made second best by his own sister and I’m the bad guy. I told him I just needed attention the night after and he couldn’t give a damn, he ignored me when I needed him most I told him that was emotional abuse and asked him how would he feel if it was his daughter in that situation with her partner when she grows up. He finished with me I got even more upset but ended up just being like whatever have your moment. As I’ve said I’ve given him space I’ve left him to his own devices and the guy still can’t give me an answer. I did what he asked of me which was to apologise to the people who I hurt but it just still ain’t enough! What am I supposed to do. I’m not begging him to be in a relationship with me, if he’s gonna leave me then he needs to sort this stuff out and he’s not.

Update:

He’s come back to the house and staying, he still hasn’t given me anything for the reasoning for his actions and I’m going to leave it as it is as I really don’t care anymore.