Would you date/marry someone with a child already?

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I had no interest in it and never thought I would, actually didn’t even want kids. But when I met my husband he had a 4 yr old (now 12) and we have 2 girls together as well.
I got lucky though. Him and his ex had already been through the fighting about co parenting stage, she was already re married with another kid. They only communicated about their daughter. Me and her are not besties, but there’s no bad vibes or anything between us, we communicate effectively regarding her daughter as well.

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That’s a big ole NOPE from me🤷🏻‍♀️

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Already did

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Yes. My SO and I have been together 6+ years. He has 2 sons, 12 & 7. I have a son who is 9. I love our life we all have together.

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Yes, I would. Even more so than if they Didn’t. That child would be put through so much and all I want would be to love them and Their Parent(s). 
My mom joined our family with another. Her Boyfriend I call my StepDad and his kids are now my siblings. Their mom is a brat but she’s also not someone I interact with. Her parenting isn’t the best but she’s ok. The problems that come out of joining two family’s is hard to handle but as long as the Parents are working to solve those problems as they come it will be okay. 
Somethings that are different:
My step brother (SB) has always had access to internet and X-Box
My brothers haven’t. Especially R rated games. 
SB has weekends with his mom who gives her kids whatever they want. My brothers don’t. 
X-Box: SB didn’t like to share. 
            One kid got something it wasn’t fair SB didn’t get one. 
            Lots of Rated R games, not many ‘Kid Friendly’ games. 
            Autism Brother saw lots of violence. Becoming like a Villain-ish Hero.  
My Brother with Autism had a Rewarding system to control his behavior but we took it out 3 years ago so as to be fair with all the kids. 
Now this brother acts up. 
Attitude Adjustments from SB because of the difference in between the two family’s. 
Just small problems we’re working on.

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no, just bc im 19 and feel like thats way too much responsibility lol

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I am dating someone with a child. Two actually. From two women. It's difficult. He actually cheated on me with one of them a couple of years ago and we are still working on that...
I would probably never do it again lol 
Ugh.

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Nah, I never want kids so I currently wouldn't. If I was like 40-50 and single then probably, I wouldn't have an option most likely then compared to my 20s and maybe 30s.

Would you date/marry someone with a child already?

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