Plus size Jeans and confidence... 🙄 HELP

I am a size 12 to 14 depending on jean. Thats in target brand jeans.

I feel like I could be alot more confident if I had jeans that fit correctly.. Target jeans fit perfect around legs and butt but then when it comes time to button, I have to leave them unbuttoned if I want to sit down without it suffocating me.

I need a stretchy high waisted jean that are tight and fitting.

Could I find this at Torrid?!