Better head/bed life?

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The relationship I’m in right now is the longest I’ve ever been in and I’m not going to lie, I can be a little lazy in bed. It’s not because of him, it’s because I violently gag when I brush my teeth and my knees hurt a lot when I try and get on top. I’m sure there’s other “on top” positions I could try, I just haven’t found the right one yet. Any suggestions?

Also, I’m not sure if I’ll ever be able to do anything about my gag reflex but what are some things I can do that’ll still feel amazing that don’t involve trying to deepthroat my way to death?