So my boyfriend and me were planning on moving in together once it’s 2020, so not too far away. Recently we discovered we have some huge differences. Growing up, I watched my mom stay home with me and my siblings, while my dad went to work to provide for us. I told him I’ve always been set on not working full time while I have babies and kids. I think it’s important for kids to grow up around parents and not babysitters. I don’t want to send my kids to daycare, I don’t trust it for a minute. All my family has jobs, no one to watch the kids. So I would like to work part time; probably afternoons/nights when he would be home to watch them. But he said it’s just not realistic and that he doesn’t wanna “pay for everything” which I completely understand, but my car payment, will always be MY car payment, and working part time I can bring in 300-400$ a week on top of him bringing home like 1,300 a week. I don’t see how it’s unrealistic. And he’s not willing to compromise.. so should I? I also forgot to mention that when we first started talking about our future awhile ago he told me I could be a stay at home mom.