5 year marriage crisis?

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I’m having a crisis. I’m no longer physically attracted to my husband. Like AT ALL. I don’t approach him for sex at all. He still approaches me and sex is alright but not great not something like WOW. I wanna cry as I type this. We just bought a house too. He’s a nice person but our families don’t get a long and we are very different from each other. I just want to be happy. We almost got divorced last year and now sometimes I find myself thinking why didn’t I go through it. Anybody here has gone through something like this and gotten past it!? I’m 28 and he’s 29. We got married at 24 and inside I feel like I did it just to get out of my parents house. I know it’s stupid but it has to do with psychological reasons I’m sure. Pls help ladies

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Try “dating” him again. When people get married they often get comfortable and forget how it is to date their significant other which leads to unhappiness amongst other things. Try couples counseling and see if that can help. Don’t give up until you know for a fact you gave your all and still if your unhappy then you would need to leave for the sake of your happiness.

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Every marriage goes through its ups and Downs. In my experience and my friends it is usually around the 5-7 year mark and can last awhile. Do you guys get along? Have fun together? Despite looks good sex still? Looks aren’t everything but I know ya have to be somewhat attracted.  Does he know how ya feel? Sometimes two totally different personalities end up better in the long run! 
As far as his and your parents go...none of that matters! It’s you and him that married one another, when one side bad mouths the others family ya gotta shut them down as soon as the first word is said! I know this from experience. In laws can be a nightmare on both sides! So what you have to not give a shit about that!! And it’s not their life. That’s not grounds for divorce I don’t think. 
I’d give it time and really think cause the grass isn’t always greener and love is hard to find. No matter what relationship you’ll ever be in there’s gonna be rough patches (you will find his personality ugly or he gains weight cause he’s comfortable, there’s so many reasons ) but you’ll have to figure them out bc that’s what marriage is about after the honeymoon stage. Ya grow together for the rest of your life’s! 
This is only my opinion I just don’t want you to jump and regret it. If you do decide you want a divorce don’t blind side him or start slowly being mean to him bc no one deserves that. I have caught myself being shitty bc of something completely different than the problem at hand. He would say something and no matter what I was shitty to him. I had to spend more time than I usually would to think and control my actions! 🤦🏼‍♀️. I could go on forever lol but it’s one of life’s many rides!! Good luck to you  🍀 🙏🏻😁

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I went to re read and a lot of miss wording...damn phone lol. I hope ya get the drift of some of those....😂🤦🏼‍♀️

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Talk to him, tell him you feel your relationship is dying. You both can try to work through this

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Marriage counseling?