What are the characteristics of a pedofile?


So I'm going to be honest and I'm not going to hide it. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed to say that my husband is 30 years older than me. Im 22 and he's 54. I love him to death. We're both God following, faithful Christians. My husband is the biggest class clown, fun loving, selfless, giving, kind hearted, and godly man I've ever met. Several women are calling him a pedophile because of the age difference, but that's NOT the only thing that defines a pedofile! Help me prove these women wrong!