can I have some tips and advice please, I’m a first time mum to be. I’m 19 years old and 29 weeks and 5 days pregnant. I’m absolutely terrified of giving birth, no I’m petrified. I feel sick, I feel excited, I feel butterflies. I’m scared, like really scared. I’ll have my mum and my partner in there with me but honestly I don’t think I have ever felt so nervous and scared in my life. I can’t express how scared I am. I feel so so anxious the more the time gets nearer. I love my little boy with all my heart already I’m so so in love and so attached. Every time I hear his heartbeat I fall in love all over again, every time I see his perfect little face on the scans I fall in love all over again, i love feeling his movements and kicks I could stay up all night and watch him play, I admire my bump and love him dearly but how the hell am I meant to push a real life human out of my fufu?!😰🤷🏼‍♀️😩

before I got big I was like yeah I can do this, this is what my body was made for and then as I got bigger and the time got nearer I’m like no no no I can’t do this, how can I do this, this is huge, this is insane, this is SCARY I’m scared. What if I poop myself? What if I push too hard and I actually poop myself? What will my partner think? What if complications happen, what if I have no choice but to have the epidural and I can’t feel half of my body?! I’m actually so scared. Has anybody got any advice and tips for a first time young mum? This baby was planned so of course I knew what I was in for, I knew I had to push a baby out of my coochi🤦🏼‍♀️ but when the time actually comes you’re like shit... I’ve actually got to do this.. like this baby is coming out of me in 10 weeks time or less and honestly I’m so scared☹️ of course I’m excited too!! But my anxiety just takes over as usual..