My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Found videos on his phone from a night 2 years ago where him and I were drinking in our home. In the videos, I am passed out and naked in the shower. He is filming himself touching me. Then he films himself having sex with me in the bed. while I am unconscious!!!!! Then he put a bottle of hairspray inside me.

I literally have no idea how to bring this up or what to do. Please help me! I'm so disgusted and ashamed. I really don't know what say.