I was looking through my boyfriends web history for an amazon code when I see tons of visits to the famous cheating website.. Ashley Madison. Now he was still looked in so I take a peek. He has a recent photo, his age changed to recent(just had a birthday) and his hand selected bio says, “ looking for casual sex but that’s is about it.” His relationship status on there is, attached male looking for female. Now looking at the messages he’s sent favorite and winks/kisses. But not real convos I can see, unless he deleted them. But most of these woman are from the city we live in. I also instinctively checked his deleted photos and low and behold deleted pictures of booty pics and half naked obviously taken on Snapchat PICS. I don’t know what to do, I feel like I should talk to him but is this cheating? I don’t know how to feel.

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I talked to him about it and he said he has the account to see if people he knows is cheating on his SO... is that even believable like.. he’s pleading to me he hasn’t used it for months but the receipts don’t lie. Swears he’s not cheating on me

So he showed me the date is was created which was before we started dating, as well as where the pictures of those girls came from, a thing called fans only? Like premium porn? Idk but I saw the website and they weren’t sent directly. I am still upset that he had the account in the first place, but he did have the receipts. Apparently he changed the picture when we first got together and it automatically updates age. I haven’t left him, and we’re working on this together, although my trust has been broken. Some of y’all are fucking harsh, Callin me stupid and a fool. Thanks anyway though.