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Question

So my bf broke up with me like almost 2 weeks ago. I lost my virginity to him and we had been together for such a long time. Today has been the first time I have sex with someone other than him. He was an old friend and I wanted a friends with benefits kinda thing so I went over and shit went down. Idk why but it didn’t feel right. It felt so so so terribly wrong man. I was so sad. Like I was having sex with someone that’s not my ex. Like damn why do I feel like this I should be enjoying this. I can’t stop crying and it feels so fucking bad. Like I feel terrible man. My friend hadn’t done anything wrong. He just wasn’t my ex. This hurts bro. Like why. I’ve never felt this way before. I’ve never been so heartbroken in my life.

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You didn't give yourself time to heal from your breakup.   Take the time to take care of you,  sex just complicates things.

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Give yourself some time to actually get over your relationship. Don't just sleep with dudes right after a relationship, because that still will just end up breaking your heart instead of theirs.  But it's going to be alright. I know it hurts at the moment, but it will pass and you'll find someone who doesn't make you feel bad. Don't spend to much time on thinking about sleeping with this other dude, because what's done is done. Your single. You didn't cheat. Your just still upset from the breakup. That's it. Leave it at that and go on being beautiful, confident and amazing ❤️

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I know how you felt, I lost my virginity to my boyfriend and when we broke up I hooked up once with a guy I had been “in love” with since I was 12 and it didn’t feel right. I hated myself for it, and when I hooked up once again with another guy I hated myself even more because I thought I was moving on, and even I was still hooking up with my boyfriend, but I was really not over him. And eventually we got back together. Friends with benefits isn’t for everyone, you didn’t give yourself time to heal from the break up and you should work on yourself first before thinking of trying the fwb option.

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Loosing your virginity to someone is a very special thing, especially if you guys were together for a long time. My last ex was supposed to be the man I was gonna marry & he wasn’t even my first, a year after our break up I finally had sex with someone else & it still felt wrong. I think for awhile it’s not going to feel right & that’s okay. Just give yourself some time to heal & everything will turn out fine in the end

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