So my girlfriend and I have been together for 6 years (today war the anniversary actually) and we are in a long distance relationship because she joined the military a year ago. Well when we have phone sex, im the only ive masterbating because she has told me she doesn't want to masterbate or doesn't like it??? I have tried to convince her to just try it with me so we can both feel good, but she won't. How can i get things to be more intimate if she isn't getting any pleasure on her side of the phone? She claims that it's because she loves to please me first... but it still makes me sad that we can't have the masterbation facetime dates.

Anyone have suggestions?