Sex with my partner

Ok ladies!! Soooo last night my husband and I had sex and I’m not so happy about it. He doesn’t get me horny. All he does is suck my nipples. I need some advise of what can I do in bed??? Toys? Lubricants? Also is there suck a thing as “loose vagina” we have 2 kids that where vaginal deliveries. And lately i don’t feel him inside of me like I used to do. What could be going wrong?

Ps we’ve been married for 9 years no and I’m in mid 20’s and him mid 30’s