So shit has really hit the fan

When I first moved in I asked my boyfriend how much I would need to contribute to the rent /bills. He said all I needed to do was buy food, I kept asking him and this is all he would say. Anyway I saved up a certain amount every month and then asked him again. He finally gave me a figure which is more or less what I saved, so I gave it to him.

We had a lodger living with us, so he paid a fraction of the bills. He moved out in May around the time I asked him how much I'd need to pay, bear in mind we get money from the government to put towards rent. When I first asked him how much we got he said £650. I continued to send £150 because I remember him saying the rent here in totally was £800 per month. I still buy food every week and alternate with gas and electric.

I had a mishap with my pay at work and asked if he could help me out a little until I go back to work, he agreed. This evening he is really angry and pissed off, he asked me how I'm going to be able to pay for rent and childcare. So I said when I go back to work it will work out. Then he tells me he's in debt because I haven't paid my full rent and he needs to get his teeth fixed.

Apparently I don't care about anything and I don't listen to him. I'm like I've been asking you what's up for ages and you haven't said a thing. It was only the other day he mentioned having to use his credit card (I'm in the exact same boat), yet never mentioned anything else. He mentioned going to the dentist but never once complained about anything, so I thought it was a check up.

He's really pissed off. Apparently he communicates more than I do, although I'm always the one sitting us down to talk. He just never mentions this stuff. Then he says this is why he doesn't like bothering people and likes being by himself :/

I haven't gone back to work yet because our daughter still isn't settled at her childminders yet. I can't just leave her and I don't want to start work and have to keep leaving. I told him I'd find the money to send it to him.