Break up?

Question

My boyfriend and I are great together. He's wonderful with my kids. He's nothing but loving and supportive towards me. I want to marry him some day tbh. But I feel like he's too good for me. Financially, I'm in a hole. Emotionally, I need him constantly, because I don't have many friends. I'm just dragging him down. He deserves to be with someone more stable. Is it selfish of me to want to stay with him anyways?

Answer

Instead of feeling like you should break up, use that to help motivate yourself to do better financially. I know its hard to do but at least TRYING cab be helpful. That's what my relationship did to me. I got super motivated to pay off debt and get my credit in line to eventually buy a house together. My credit is relatively good now and my debt is now less than $8000

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The issues you mentioned, are issues with yourself and your personal situation. Not with the relationship itself..
Although it can be very difficult You can improve your financial situation. You can find a way to make more friends. 
Addressing those issues can help make you feel better in yourself, and in the relationship. Which is better all round rather than breaking up and avoiding the problems

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I would suggest therapy for you. He’s choosing to be with you, you may see flaws in yourself that he doesn’t.

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Go to therapy to work out your insecurities. He's with you because he loves you.

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I would definitely not break up with him. That should be motivation to help you better yourself. 
I was not financially sound when my boyfriend and I got together. He has way better credit than I do, he has a great job and is wonderful to me and my son. He helped motivate me to do better for myself and has been so supportive of me trying to rebuild my credit. I took my entire tax check last year to pay off all of my debt and once I moved in with him, I was able to help pay bills. My credit finally began to get better because all of my debt was paid off. For the first time ever, I was able to buy my first car on my own. I probably would never have been able to get to where I am now without him. He helped me become a better person and be able to be more financially independent. 
At first I felt like he was too good for me and at times I still feel like that but I deserved him. I deserved to be happy. My son deserved to be happy and we are because we have him. Don’t look at your situation as a negative. Build yourself up from that.

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