silly arguments

for the past two days i've been getting into silly arguments with my boyfriend and he said that its "always an argument with me" and i don't even mean to start them. i just try to express how i feel then he starts saying how the conversation is pointless and how he doesn't care but he might as well say how i feel doesn't matter. at that point i get upset with him because i want him to understand how it hurt me. we made up last night but today it happened again and i hate feeling like this and i don't know what to do or how to avoid it because i can't keep quiet about something that upsets me.

i also haven't seen him in a few days except once so i'm not sure if that's added to why i'm so irritable?