When I was in college I was dating this loser, now looking back I see how toxic that relationship was to me and my health. When I would tell him about my friends from school or just any guy I would meet he would seem indifferent. He always pushed me to eat very unhealthy and tell me he would love me no matter my weight. Any who I ended up gaining some major weight and to him it made him happy because that meant no other guys would be interested in me. A week after I graduated, I ended the relationship. I began working out and eating healthy. Got in very good shape. I met my husband got married and got pregnant during our honeymoon. After the baby life got me super busy, working, newborn, grad school and my husband. I let me self go a little. Eventually I tried to get healthy again and it didn’t work. I got pregnant with baby #2 and now 10 months later I am the heaviest I have ever been. I’ve been really thinking about weight loss surgery. I’m not trying to take the easy way out, because believe me I have tried for 4 years and I can’t seem to lose the weight. I need some advice. This weight has put me in a funk that I can’t seem to get out. Has anyone done the surgery and just advice in general.