Weekend alone with hubby, self care tips?

I’m looking forward to spending a weekend child free with my husband for the first time in 2 years. I’ve struggled with depression and have neglected my body a lot. I have really dry skin and feet. I was wondering if anyone has any products they use and recommend for trying to remedy this so I can be softer and more touchable for our weekend alone. I’ve been looking for exfoliators but there’s so many to choose from. I easily get ingrown hairs too, so I’m looking for a way to shave and hopefully not have that look as bad as usual.