When should I test?

I had my son march 2019 and I haven’t really been having sex like that. I recently started having sex frequently and my husband accidentally came in me on one of the days I was high fertile and we had sex again the day before my ovulation put he pulled out. Since then I’ve been feeling some type of way. I ovulated I guess and I’m out of the fertile days and I’m cramping. I literally feel like I’m bout to come on my period all weekend but it isn’t for another 11 days. He went to Paris right now and idk what to do because for my son we were trying. Should I wait until it gets closer to my period? Also with my son even the hospital couldn’t tell me I was pregnant when I went a couple days before Misses my period and I’m scared it’ll be the same this time but my job is very physical and I don’t wanna risk anything although it’s really early.