Did I say something wrong? Long post

I’ll try to make this short.

Yesterday we had our gender reveal. (Finally!) Well we had talked to our families and agreed on the date that would work best for everyone.

My husbands two sisters still didn’t show.

His parents were there and were complaining about how tired they were. My FIL said that they had stayed up until 3am because Rose (SIL) and her husband Tony had been at their house drinking.

Well I asked them “Why couldn’t they come over here for a little bit?” His mom said “It’s not her it’s Tony he doesn’t ever want to go anywhere” I said “No it’s not just him it’s both of them but it’s ok” 🤷🏻‍♀️ I mean I asked them bc they didn’t even bother to call or text us they contacted my in-laws instead. I guess she reached out to them bc we were all waiting to make sure they were coming n didn’t miss out. ( Even though she knew all along she wasn’t gonna come!) In the back of my mind I wanted to tell them “ So they could be at your house last night drinking and smoking until 3am but they can’t make it to our home for a few minutes Or an hour!?” But I kept it to myself 💆🏻‍♀️

Well my husband pulled me to the side later and said “You need to watch out what you say because now my mom is crying.” But I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO MAKE HER CRY!! I should be the one upset bc they always wanna talk about how we never invite them over to our house but when we plan dinner or anything they never come even if they say they are. So later I was outside talking to my mom n venting bc I wanted to get her opinion on if she thought I was out of line.

After the reveal his mom was wanting me to talk to his sister Rose because they were video chatting. Umm 😐 why do you want me to act like I’m happy that she’s seeing all this in a crappy phone. She didn’t bother to text or call us back to confirm she was or wasn’t coming. She shouldn’t even have been able to see it and the only reason she could was bc she had some stupid video chat app. .

His other sister on the other hand just didn’t want to show up. She had no excuse she wasn’t working neither was her fiancé. Bc she had told us a few weeks ago. And she even had texted Friday how she was excited. 😒

So this morning I wasn’t happy with my husband still for blaming me that his mom was crying. And when we talked about it he told me she was crying bc she was upset her daughters didn’t bother to show up. Then why would you tell me it was something I said?!?!?

My husband even tried to tell me that they probably just didn’t feel it was a big deal bc it wasn’t a baby shower so I reminded him that Rose didn’t even show up to our sons baby shower and his other sister showed up and left within a few minutes. So honestly I didn’t want to hear excuses.

I just feel that they shouldn’t expect me to go out of my way anymore to attend their events when they can’t show up to any of ours. (Not just our reveal)

And he doesn’t understand that I am still disappointed with them. He said “It was yesterday just forget about it?” 🧐

I’m so sorry it’s long I just needed to vent 😤