Why Her But Not Me.

Question

I'm Ready To Be A Mom. I Sware, but Every Month i Loose hope. Now me and My Hisband Have Only been ACTIVELY trying for 3 months Now But Havn't Used protection for a Year. So Theres A Family Friend Who is 16, 16, and Has Gotten Pregnant a week after she First Began to have Sex. And i'm Happy for her i Sware i Think it's Great. I Guess i'm Kinda Living Through her.. But Anyway.. Why Her She's Not Ready, financially, physically.. She's So Young.. And I've Been Trying so Hard.. I'm Ready.. I Guess cuz i Got AF today.. Ugh.. Anyone else feel this way? 
By the Way Bo Hate To Teen Moms Nor anybody Else. I'm Not Trying to be Hateful, promose.. But i'm just So Sad..

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Your Time Will Come Be Patient. Some people Just need To Make more Of an effort. Capitalizing Words Makes it Very Hard to Read. 😧

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It's understandable that you feel this way. But you should really focus on yourself, instead of being envious of others fertility, no matter what their situation is (if they're stable, or not). I know it must be hard. But focus more on yourself and making yourself healthier to prepare for pregnancy, don't focus your energy or any of your time thinking about someone else's fertility. That's their business. And you haven't been actively trying for long at all don't give up!

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I definitely understand. It's been 2 1/2 years that my husband and I have been trying and it seems like everyone around me is having their own babies. I just keep trying to convince myself that it will happen when it supposed to. Keep your head up! :)

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I truly understand what you are going through. My husband and I have been trying for 5 months and nothing has happened yet. Each month I get my period and become more and more depressed. After month three I honestly wanted to just give up, but my husband isn't allowing that, so we're still going at it and hopefully one day it will happen. Like my husband tells me , don't loose hope. Keep your head up.

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I understand that feeling, although I didn't have trouble conceiving I've had 3 misscarriages and every time I was pregant a friend of ours would be as well. Always someone in a bad relationship/living at home or much younger. I tryed to be happy for them but I just couldn't I just didn't understand why everything would work out for them and not us when we had planned it, had a perfect relationship, been together long enough to know this is what we wanted as well as living together for years already, being financially stable and having our own home. I guess I just thought we where more deserving 😞 I was just soo jealous.

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I know how you feel. I've got an 18 yr old friend due with a baby boy 11/21/2015. It's not fair I've been trying for 4 1/2 months! No baby. She didn't plan him and boom there he is. Really???!!! It upsets me too, but don't lose hope. Baby dust!

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