How do I enjoy sex again? In my previous relationship I was sexually abused and my current boyfriends been so understanding about it. I feel like I have to have sex with my boyfriend I feel like if I don’t he’ll cheat on me which he hasn’t done anything to lead me to believe this, it’s just how I feel from previous relationship. How do I stop dreading sex and how do I stop seeing it as a chore sometimes it’s all I want to do is have sex with him but I feel guilty for wanting sex? Has anyone been through anything similar or does anyone have any tips?