I cook dinner for my husband and myself about 4 nights a week. The other 3 nights he is at work and sometimes I make him something to take.

Anyway, when I make dinner, I do everything on my own. My husband sits and plays video games while I cook. I NEVER ask him to help me with anything unless I absolutely cannot do it on my own (maybe a jar needs opened, or something simple like that). On top of that, I do all the grocery shopping.

There are only two things that my husband is in charge of cooking. Hamburgers and steaks. We have burgers maybe once a month and steaks maybe once every few months. Last night we decided to have hamburgers, box mac and cheese, and frozen French fries. Super simple.

So my husband is making the burgers on the stove and the oven is now preheated for the fries. I'm sitting in the living room playing on my phone with a glass of wine, enjoying the fact that my husband is making me dinner for a change. He asks me to come in the kitchen and put the fries in the oven. I was kind of annoyed, like, really? You can't dump some fries on a pan and throw them in the oven real quick? Takes two seconds. I reminded him that I don't ask him for help when I cook, and I always cook more complex meals.

So now he's annoyed with me because I wouldn't start the fries. The ground beef I had bought was about to expire, so before he even started cooking, I told him he will need to divide up the remaining beef and freeze it. So once he's almost done cooking, I remind him to put the beef in the freezer so it doesn't go bad. He kind of sighs and gets an attitude, "can you come and do that? I'm trying to make dinner". I said no. When I cook dinner, if there is meat, or any other food, that needs to be frozen, I do that as well.

I'm just a little upset that he gets mad at me for not helping him with dinner, when he is making one of the simplest meals, but never helps me when I make us a nice dinner. And it's not like this has been a one time thing. He does this every single time he makes dinner, which like I said, is about once a month.