Am I peeing or having an orgasm ??

Hey girls,

Most of the time when my husband and I have sex, underneath me is drenched. I get so embarrassed because I’m not sure if I’m an urinating on myself. We just finished, and when I realized the bed was wet, I started crying. Is something wrong with me? Anytime I actually relax and get into sex, this happens. I can feel it when it happens... help! 😭😭