Did he do me dirty ???

I’m just going to start off with saying Iv never really been a jealous person , but

My husband is in the navy and has made a very sloppy female friend. As my girlfriend called it a “work wife” , they hang out all day because of the line of work he’s in so they see each other at least for 12 hrs out of the day then every Friday he’ll invite her and her “boyfriend” over , (let me explain they sloppy side , she has openly discussed with him her sex life and he’s shared our sex life with her , she has slept with 33 people and she loves to share that fact and jokes around to my husband with sexual innuendos , even after 12 hrs of working together they still txt each other at night when he’s home with me. My husband has compared me to her once and gets “facts” from her and test it to me , there has been an Instance we’re he has put her feelings and needs before mine ! But he acts like I’m overacting when I bring the topic of them two being too close of friends and he says nothing is going on , to trust him , and that when he’s graduated from his work class (he’s in the navy) we’ll never see her again.

So yesterday I was scrolling through his pictures to find an old pic of us from our first date to post it , but I come across what looks to be a video and I just see her back bent , no shirt with a sports bra , in a twerking position, so I push play and the video took place at MY HOME during a small get together we had some to drink and I’m in the back of the video and I remember my husband on the couch but I didn’t remember seeing the bitch Jump in front of his camera and start twerking. he doesn’t know I have seen that video yet I’m waiting until he gets home.

SO LADIES 👏👏 am I overacting , being “that wife “ or am I fucking right about this friend of his ? What would u do ???