Am I being too sensitive?

I am a SAHM and I work really hard to take care of our daughter and manage the household. We currently have a lot of house guests (my MiL, FIL, and sister). I get really overwhelmed with so many guests. People are always messing with my routine, my daughter’s routine, or how I run my house. I was feeling really overwhelmed yesterday because we are hosting an event Sunday and my house was in shambles. I was busy caring for my daughter, and I just felt overwhelmed trying to accomplish it all. My husband, had his first day off in over a month yesterday. He was watching TV. I respect how hard he works so I didn’t want to ask him for help, because I felt like he deserved to relax. However, he never even attempted to offer to do the dishes or switch the laundry or play with baby. Nothing.

He was upset that I vocalized that I was stressed and then took the help his mom offered me. I told him I wish I had known he was upset, and that if I had known I wouldn’t have taken the help. He told me I was whining. I stated I simply felt overwhelmed. He said, “That’s because you don’t know how to run a household.”

It really hurt my feelings. I am never succeeding in his eyes. He expects a clean house, à cared for baby, a packed lunch, a dinner on the table each day. He expects me to run the errands and work on selling his endless junk on EBay. But I am never competent enough or doing enough. When is my freaking break?

Am I being too sensitive? I tend to get a little crazy when we have so many guests. 🤦‍♀️😩