Advice please.

I’ve been with my partner for 7 years and I feel sometimes we have a connection like we can have a little laugh at times and we can chit chat about everyday life but I just don’t ever feel that loving feeling. I think I’ve maybe felt it once when I was having sex with him, I felt a very close bound I’d say but most times it just feels like a friendship.

We are both laidback people so I’m worried that maybe we both just settled for that and we aren’t actually in proper love.

Im so confused. Please any advice or experiences to help. What should I do.