The past two months we’ve had intercourse maybe 3-4 times and it’s been causing arguments to happen.

Last night after drinking five beers my boyfriend tells me it’s because I don’t make it a point to be sexy. He said it wouldn’t hurt for me to wear tall socks and bend over to show my bare “ass” or slip a boob while pretending to dust. Okay I get it, we’ve settled into a boring routine. But it seems like I take the blame for everything that happens in our relationship. I can’t sleep because I suddenly feel this added pressure to get our sex life back to wear it needs to be. I’m 7 weeks pregnant with our second child. Our first is 13 months and I’m still carrying the extra weight from her. So sadly my confidence isn’t there.

Any suggestions?