My partner left me and packed her stuff and went back to her mums house.

Anyways it's been a month since she left.. and since then i have loved not picking up after her all the time cause she is such a messy person.. she never helped me around the house.. she never did anything... and it was always an effort to get her to help me.. when i had to ask..

Since shes been gone.. I have loved coming home after work to my house again and not feeling im walking on eggshells or shes always shitty at me over something.. and her moodiness.

We used to constantly argue..

We still argue now and she doesn't even live with me anymore.. cause i havent asked her to come back.. I let her sleep over a few days a week at mine or il go to her mums and see her.. but i have loved sleeping on my own in my bed.

I feel like I finally have put me first for once... and i never do that.. I'm such a people pleaser all the time..

She makes me feel like a shit person though cause i havent asked her to come back to mine to move in. I guess I was just over the drama and when there's drama I can just come home to my home.. without it. She cracks it at me at everything that doesn't go her way.

Am i wrong to feel like this?