I need some advice, I just turned 19 and my fiancé is 21 and we have a 5 month old. I moved away from my family and moved to Texas 3 years ago to live with my mom. Since I got pregnant, I have been constantly wanting to move back to my hometown, but I’m okay with living in Texas because my mom and my fiancé family lives here.

My fiancé wants to move and he doesn’t want to move to my hometown and we’ve discussed a few compromises but they won’t work for us. He blames me for turning down a job offer in California because i wasn’t ready even though I said we could try long distance. He said the next job offer he gets in another state, he will take it even if i don’t come along with him. So i asked about our daughter because I can’t imagine going months without seeing my daughter and he feels the same.

I told him maybe I’ll feel different in a few years but right now I don’t want to move states unless it’s to go to my hometown, but he feels he’s already at a point where he wants to move to a new area. I just want that emotional support, it’s very hard for me to meet new people. I’ve been in Texas for 3 years and haven’t made any friends and we he works it’s just me and our daughter.

I don’t know what to do, is this something that we can work through and compromise on or do we really just want different things out of life?

I know this was long so thank you if you kept reading, i just really need some advice.