Am I in the wrong?

So my bf and I have been together for awile. What would you do if he texted another female saying

"You still owe me a lap dance rt" ?

And when you confront him about it, he says "she's way in florida, i don't want anything to do with her, the text don't mean anything, I was hoping she would respond 'hell no'" am I in the wrong for feeling the way I did? It happened about a week ago but now since then he won't allow me to touch his phone because he said it causes problems....? What the fuck?