Is this emotional abuse?

I don't feel supported or understood by my husband. Each month he takes nothing seriously, and then can't understand why I am devastated every time AF arrives. He has yet again had an argument with me, screaming at me because I tried to tell him how disappointed I am and said that he "doesn't want to hear this every month". I am constantly trying to make him reason with how this makes me feel, but every time he proves he has no idea and is incapable of imaging what women go through. He is so disrespectful that on this topic he asked if I think I am special and stated he is half of everything here.

I need advice or any support, I'm rather shaken 😔