Is it rude to ask him not?

So my birthday is coming up on the 8th November and I have told this person that I have made so many plans. And I’ve had them all planned months in advance. And they’ve dropped it that they want to come up and see me even tho I won’t be home. I’ve politely asked them if we can reschedule or simply cancel and they got all angry at me for it. Was it rude of me?

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