Trying for a baby

Niamh

My partner and I have been trying to conceive for a couple of weeks but I got the worst news possible on Sunday... My mum has just been diagnosed with cancer. She knows that we were trying for a baby and doesn’t want us to put it on hold because she is sick... She is inspiringly positive about it but would I be selfish if we kept trying? Would I even be able to conceive with the stress and worry of her being sick???