Today my bf said something that really upset me, it was something about food and with a history of eating disorders that he knows the comment was very insensitive. He didn’t even acknowledge that he said something that upset me, and I was pretty upset. I just got kind of quiet I guess. I couldn’t really talk to him about it because we were with my mom.

Later, he apologized, and that’s what I was looking for, an apology, and after that I forgave him and moved on.

I was just yelled at by my mom who claims I was being controlling for feeling upset until I got an acknowledgement from him that he did really upset me. Was I being controlling?