I know, it's not something I should be ashamed of, but this whole waiting for love thing I've been trying has gotten me nowhere and I'm sick of being a virgin! I don't want to wait until marriage because I wouldn't want to marry someone without being comfortable, and experienced, sexually with them already. I just want to be in love and that seems like it will never happen. I'm also afraid that if I ever find someone I'm comfortable with and want to have sex with, that they will be put off by my inexperience. I'm 21 and about to apply for grad schools in different states and I feel like such a loser for still being a virgin as I'm starting out on my journey to becoming a professional adult.