This is my baby #4. I am having a girl and I always wanted a second girl so that my daughter is not alone. Everything is perfect no bad pregnancy complications or anything except emotional mess, been crying for silly stuff. Back of my mind I am also thinking about how will i manage 4 kids (this is a surprise baby) and I have a 17 mon toddler already.

Plus my hubby is never emotionally available for me...well can’t blame him he wasn’t brought up like that. He does help me a bit here and there but that’s only when he wants and if I nag about it I ruin the entire day so I generally try to avoid asking for help and do everything myself. My kids are very helping they help do dishes and take care of my toddler. But even after all this I still want someone to pamper me or take care of me and tell me I got this. I wish my hubby was a little more expressive and empathetic.

Any suggestions on what I should be doing besides waiting to pop?