How do you approach someone??

Option A: I go out and have some fun. I come home with pictures or a video and show it to him. Afterwards he pleases me correctly.

Option B: his words..." I want to watch you get railed from behind while youre giving me oral"

I'm okay with either one. Ill try anything once, twice if I like it. But the question is, which one would you do and how do you ask people to join in the kind of thing?