Does anyone else think this way?

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So me and my boyfriend have been together almost 5 years and I just wanna get married. Because the way I was raised I was taught Premarital sex is wrong. It's a sin and I know if
the world ended tomorrow,We would go to hell. I mean we are good people. that's the only thing that we do wrong. Does anyone believe this way?

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These comments are one reason I don't like religion on a log list of reasons. If you believe the bible, why do you get to pick and choose what's for real and what's not? 
 I don't think premarital sex is a sin, I don't believe in sins. I think you're safe with living a life that's not hurting anyone or yourself.

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If you believe it is wrong stop doing it! Don't marry him because of guilt. That will be the worst mistake you ever make.

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The whole point of Christianity is that Jesus died for your sins and that you can be forgiven and won't go to hell. So even if it were a sin, you'd be forgiven if you accepted Jesus as your savior. Don't get married out of the fear of going to hell... That might be the worst possible reason to get married next to liking the idea of planning a wedding.

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I believe that premarital sex is wrong but I also believe that you shouldn't run off and get married just because you want to have sex and are scared to go to hell.

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If you are a true Christian (believing Jesus Christ died for your sins and is your Lord and Savior) you won't be going to hell. I agree premarital sex is wrong (I wish I would have waited for marriage) but I know I'm going to heaven. I'm married now but while I was dating I was always asking God for forgiveness and to keep me strong in my morals. It was hard but I managed.

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Pray and allow God to move you in the direction you should go. But you are right having sex is a sin and it is against Gods word. I was in the same place you were and we decided that I would move out and we would no longer have sex until we were married and that's what we did!

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God hears the desires of your hear and answers your prayers. Yes it's a sin but so it a lot of other things. Pray and tell God you're struggling with this but that you trust him and believe in his word. His word says that if you confess and ask for forgiveness, you will be forgiven. His word also says that once you accept Christ as your own person savior, nothing can separate you from him....that includes you and the things you do. You aren't going to hell honey. What you're feeling right now is a disquiet in your soul, caused by the Holy Spirit that lives within you letting you know something you're doing isn't right. It's making you feel convicted. The reason it's there is to make you uncomfortable to push you toward making right whatever is wrong in your life. You're not headed for hell.

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I feel the same way some times I don't even want to have inter course because of that exact reason and it does some what cause a problem in mi realtionship but God comes 1st all things after him

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Yes I feel the exact same just had this talk with my boyfriend last night actually .. God comes first and I'm a good person we should be able to marry by three years at this point he said he agrees so we will see what happens ..

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I believe premarital sex is wrong. But I don't believe that just because of that sin you haven't been forgiven for you would go to hell

Does anyone else think this way?

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