So here is a little story...

Back in high school, I worked as a student athletic trainer (AT) for my school's football teams (freshman, jv, and varsity). One of the guys (we can call him Chris) in my graduating class was on the varsity team. He also lived in my neighborhood. We bickered and didn't get along very well simply because he hung out with the popular crowd and always thought ridiculously highly of himself.

He also dated one of my friends/ soccer teammates throughout high school, though they seemingly broke up every other month. I did not like chris while he was with her because she would constantly complain about him not treating her right. Senior year they finally called it off for good. Him and I fought all the time in school, but on the football field, it was different. He calmed down on the fighting and just tried to impress me so he could impress the other football players. There were 4 girls that were student ATs plus our mentor. Before games and practices, we would go into our training room and tape ankles, wrists, cover scabs, etc.

Chris refused to go to anybody except for the mentor or me, this wasn't uncommon because many of the football players had favorites and some of the girls just taped too tight or too loose. I had a couple of guys that would wait in a line for me to tape them vs going to one of the girls that were free. Chris started small talk with me and we actually got along pretty well. Most of these boys were like brothers to me and were willing to throw down with other football teams that insulted us ATs, but some of the football players had really big heads and I was constantly having to deflate their egos by turning them down or insulting them. These insults were all in good fun and they would poke fun at me as well.

Anyway, back on topic. One game day during our senior year, I saw Chris in the hallway during school. He was late and as he ran past me on his way to class, he turned around real quick and told me that I was going to be his good luck charm for the game. I just laughed at him because he never acknowledged me in a friendly way during school.

Before the game, he sat near me as we ate dinner, he had me tape his wrists, help fix his helmet and pads, and we just talked. I also helped to stretch him out before the game (also not uncommon with the football players). I believe we won that game. It was really weird though because it was like something changed overnight - he was rude one day, and flirting with me the next. After football season ended, he remained cordial with me and sent me a friend request on Facebook, but no flirting or anything. A couple months later, we graduated high school and I thought that was going to be the last I saw of him.

I didn't hear from him for a year or so. But while in college, he ended up messaging me saying that he was passing through my college town and wanted to meet up at the football game, but I told him that I was busy and didn't get my game ticket so I didn't go. He left without saying a word. Then a couple months later, he messaged me again asking how I was and trying to catch up. I told him it was weird for him to reach out to me considering our past and he admitted that he had a crush on me and couldn't get me off his mind.

We continued to talk and flirted a lot because I did find him physically attractive (he was exactly my type) but I never even tried giving him a chance because he was such an ass to me in school. He told me that he wanted to see me and if I'm ever in town to hit him up. Not gonna lie, we were borderline sexting most of the time we were talking. He got into a relationship and continued to talk to me. I was unaware of this situation until it became Facebook official a couple months later.

Over the course of his relationship with this girl, he has constantly messaged me, telling me he couldn't wait until I was in town, saying he wanted to have sex with me, etc. I always just deleted the messages or told him we could talk when he broke up with this girl. I think the last time I talked to him was around 3 months ago. Well guess who just announced on Facebook that they were 11 weeks pregnant.

Not gonna lie, I'm curious how he will respond if I messaged him because I am going to be in town for Christmas, but I'm not a homewrecker. I just feel bad that I don't have any proof to warn her that he has been trying to get with me for the past year of their relationship.