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Okay folks so if your lover cheated on you, do you think you would be able to cheat right back? Or do you feel like once your SO  cheats that the relationship is over so it doesnt matter anymore?? Opinions people

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Cheat once and relationship done, ain't got time  for games no bullshit one strike and you're out

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From personal experience, the truth it never gets out your head. You will continuously think about it questioning your partner and your self. Trust is the number one think in a relationship if you don't have that then there's no relationship. Nobody should ever have to deal with that.

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The love of my life has cheated on me before. And I myself do not believe that it makes it ok for the other to go sleeping around. Obviously something is wrong if someone is cheating, and I personally feel that it needs to be confronted sooner later. I made the mistake of waiting for later and it really just made things so much worse. Issues in a relationship need to be attended to head on with alot of love and attention. The biggest mistake people make is involving other people into there issues that dont need to be involved. Keel your issues between you and your SO. and work it out. Even though its heart breaking and very painful. It is possible to recover and move forward with your family after someone had an affair...   best of luck huni

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I would never do anything with another woman that I wouldn't do if my woman was standing next to me. I feel a cheat is to do anything you wouldn't with your SO standing there. Just my opinion. If she ever cheated on me it would be over! Sex especially!! It is very sacred to me and I love to go down on her. I could never feel the same.

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In my relationship, my wife cheated in the most extreme way, you can compare it to a Maury show. We are Christians, so even though I had an out of the marriage, God had other plans. Let me make this clear, even though I didn't commit adultery, I did many despicable things to her that she had to find what I wasn't giving her in other men. She even got pregnant by one of the men she cheated with. That all happened last year, worst year of both our lives. But I am here to tell you today our marriage and relationship is better than before. So if you two want it real bad to work, work at it. But only God was able to fix our marriage, and it wasn't easy, but I wasn't going to have my son out on the street, so I decided to take her back because of him at first. It was shaky, she ended up losing the baby, and we literally moved across the country and started brand new. So you have to make the choice if this relationship is worth saving or not.

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Cheating is the worst thing you could ever do to someone and it clearly shows that you don't love them

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Getting even doesn't do shit but cause more problems and drama. Leave or forgive them, getting even is for children. Plain and simple.

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First you need to define what cheating is because everyone tweaks the guidelines to fit their scenario/lifestyle.. To avoid splitting hairs the general public views sleeping with someone other than the person you are supposed to be committed to as a no no. Talking to the opposite sex, as long as you are open and honest about it I don't see it as a big issue. Just don't do it in front of the other person, a text go for it but don't be sitting on the couch next to your SO on the phone like "hey, I'm bored. What are you doing?" because that is a slap in the face. You and your partner have to agree on the boundaries you want to implement. If those boundaries are crossed then yes, it is cheating

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If they cheat there is a problem. Doing it back makes you just as bad. If you do it you are looking for adventure and for the thing that's missing. I can tell you know that you will not find it. You need to talk to each other.

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My husband cheated on me at the beginning of our marriage a month to be exact. It hurt deeply but not once did I think about doing it to him.  I decided to forgive him but it's hard at times.  He has changed his ways and we are great now.  The hard part about forgiving him is that I do think about it alot. I just pray he never does it again.

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