My SO sister is in town from the military and the first thing she does when she sees me is stare at my belly and then says I’m huge and am I having 5 babies, then she says are you sure it’s not at its at least twins and I say no trying to be nice and then she said “youre gonna end up surprised when more pop out.” I’m so fucking pissed I’m already not wanting to be pregnant anymore and now I’m crying and my SO is telling me “why do you get upset over the stupidest thing?” Like wtf it’s not stupid it’s distasteful, rude and insensitive to say that to someone. Safe to say until she leaves Monday I’m staying in my bedroom and I don’t give a shit if anything thinks I’m being rude. It’s honestly fucking shocking what people especially family say to pregnant women.

Now my SO is here telling me oh she didn’t mean it and I don’t know why you let it get to you... because I’m sensitive and upset about my body and I don’t give a fuck if she meant it, it hurt my feelings and now I feel gross and I just don’t even want to spend time with family this weekend. Praying I go into labor today or tomorrow so me and my SO can spend the rest of her visit in the hospital and away from company.

Update:

So my SO came to me and said that his sister said she was surprised I haven’t had the baby yet because it looks like I’m having twins.. he told me that he told her that she can’t say things like that, that I’m already upset about my body and upset that baby isn’t here yet and that it really hurts my feelings when people say that. He said that she felt super bad and asked him if I I was in our room because she wants to apologize because she had no idea what she said would have such affect and he told her I was but to give me a little space because I’m very sensitive right now especially because I was set to be induced yesterday and it got moved to next Friday so I’m also very sad that my little one isn’t here in my arms. I still feel what she said was rude but I’m glad my SO stuck up for me and I’m glad that she actually wants to apologize when she sees me. I know it’s so dumb to get mad over but I’m extra sensitive and I’m hormonal and I feel so bad as is so it’s very hard for me to not want to cry when people say things like that. I just need to have this baby so I can have my body back 😩😭