Do you finger yourself while masturbating?

Question

I'm 22 and a virgin. To date I have always just rubbed my clit and around to get off. I have never fingered myself. I have tried however I am so tight and the pain is unbearable. I have never used tampons either. I am recently seeing someone (my first ever partner) and I am worried if things get sexual I will freak out because everything down there is so painful.

Answer

It's about stimulation! Make sure you're aroused before you try opening your lady parts. Not just horny but actually aroused. Vaginas do this cool thing called "tenting" when aroused and/or when your body is like "hey, baby time. Now." So play with your clitorious. Get wet. Maybe look at things that turn you on. 😊 just get a feel for it first. Let your body make that natural lube and get cozy with itself.

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You have to start slow. If you're worried just start fingering yourself. Get yourself turned on and  do not pay attention to your fingers! Just go with it! 
I remember not having sex for lik a month and a half and when my SO had sex with me, i was in so much pain. But we did it a few days in a row and it felt better and better.

Breathe.

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K girls seriously, I had the same problem and even after losing my v it never went away. Felt like knife stabbing my vagina. Went years and doctors never took me seriously, finally I found out I had vaginismus and vestibulitous. Only until after I gave birth am I now able to have pain free wonderful sex and even just putting a tampon in easy. Yoh should go to a gynaecologist and ask them to test you for what I have or anything similar. Having my problems and not knowing what it was was one of the hardest things. Countless night or crying. Wishing best for you all feeling this pain.

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I'm in the exact same situation! It hurts  and then I just don't feel anything, I'm afraid sex won't do anything for me which is scary because my boyfriend and I have started talking about having sex soon.. Foreplay is great because he rubs my clit too and I get so turned on but when he actually fingers me I don't really feel anything😩

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I am the same honestly. It's so tight down there that when I tried/try fingering myself it hurts when I do it and then for a good while afterwards too.

Do you finger yourself while masturbating?

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