Advice?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Throughout the relationship I have always felt that something was missing, sexually. He can make me orgasm but there's always something else missing, I really can't explain it. During sex I want to be dominated, not just rough sex or choking/spanking, I want more! "Yes Master" and Whips!

There have been a few times I've asked him to spank me or choke me, to try and get something, some spark, but it still doesn't do anything for me. He's not dominant enough. I've brought up the topic of BDSM before in subtle way and he seems rather against it.

Basically, I want to be sub. And my boyfriend, who I honestly do love with all my heart, isn't into the lifestyle.

I'm unsure what to do, I've been repressing these feelings for a long time and it's making me really sexually frustrated.

Any advice on handling this? I feel like there's no win-win option.

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I have a great solution. Kinda risky. Message me

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𝐷𝐸 • Oct 25, 2019
It’s nothing she’s just being a creep.. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Jess • Oct 25, 2019
What is it??

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Sarah • Oct 14, 2019
Same here I want to know

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Ask him if he's ok to open up the relationship so that you can have your sexual desires fulfilled.