Why do I always have to ask for sex?

Question

This guy is insecure and we can never just have a legit sex we’ve been together for years but I’m always asking for it and I have to or I don’t get it... does anybody else go to this???￼

Answer

Me personally would wait to see how long he can go without you asking for it. See if he goes weeks or even months without it. Then you will know if something is seriously wrong. Could be something that’s health related or just mentally related. Or potentially someone else. I mean I’m only suggesting this IF you have talked to him and communicated how this is making you feel.

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Just communicate with him. He may have a low sex drive, which is why he's leaving it up to you to decide. He may have performance anxiety, just be shy or not know how to start it. Communication and honesty is always key. 
Good luck 🤞🏽❤️

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Does he have a porn addiction? My husband was the same way.....I’d have to beg for it. When we were dating sex was amazing but we were also doing a long distance relationship so sex was always hot and we were always ready!! But after a few years into our marriage I found him with porn on....I know some are into it but I want my husband not some fantasy. It devastated me because I was wanting sex and he would, I assumed, had already blow his load with porn and thus not wanting to interact with me. He was so selfish and didn’t care what I wanted until he got caught. So much more to explain but still 15 years into our marriage and now he suffers from ED...and practically bitches about taking a little blue pill. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️😢 What’s a girl have to do to get sex from her man!! I’m close to calling it quits!

Why do I always have to ask for sex?

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